The sun is perfect and you woke this morning. You have enough language in your mouth to be understood. You have a name, and someone wants to call it. Five fingers on your hand and someone wants to hold it. If we just start there, every beautiful thing that has and will ever exist is possible. If we start there, everything, for a moment, is right in the world.
i think sleeping together is romantic because you allow the other person to be near you when you’re most vulnerable and you trust that they wont kill you
Under representation of elements can transpire in two ways
The first way is that you really lack these skills. So if you lack water, you have emotions, but experience intense trouble relating these to your own experiences. It is difficult to control or sit with emotions, you have outbursts of rage then dissocation. In the broad spectrum, how you feel about things bears a tiny weight. Unless you learn from other people and your own lessons in how to attenuate what you are missing, then they tend to carry around a sense of displacement and emptiness. These people tend to latch onto watery types as a release valve. Ask them how they feel about a situation and you may get a blank stare as response. A lot of talents and energies are poured into specialised fields while other subjects of life are neglected entirely.
The second way is that some people overcompensate for what they lack. So someone who has no earth in their chart (instead of being unstable, and not grounded) you become overly practical, security conscious and very analytical. They become pedantic about safety and get compulsive, because they tremble between every variable. The individual constantly tries to make up for the missing pieces and the fear of looking ‘too airy’ or ‘too emotional’. An individual lacking earth may require open, aloe areas, fresh natural air and ache for the feeling of grass under their feet. They have to return to Earth for sustenance rather than garner it from within. They try to replenish themselves through what they do.
Lacking elements, can make people feel unstable. But, these can be compensated for in houses, and planets in their home sign/mutual reception etc;. If you lack water you may have a full 4th house. And thats a house full of emotions and spirituality, so that would assist your water deficit.